How to Hide Your Fetish
There is nothing wrong with having a fetish. Absolutely nothing. You are not a freak. You are not a deviant. You just have particular tastes when it comes to your own sexual fulfillment. However, having a fetish is not easy, especially if you think the people around you might be apprehensive towards it whether it’s family, friends, or coworkers. Think about it. Whenever the subject of fetishes come up, it’s almost always in reference to a joke or as a way to deride a person.
“Where did this choke collar come from?” ”Oh, that was a gag gift from my bachelorette party.”
“Why do you have mold of a foot under your bed?” ”That was a joke from my frat brothers in college.”
These scenarios are pretty common among those of us who do have a fetish and have almost been caught. Oftentimes, it feels like we cannot be ourselves when it comes to our sexual enjoyment. Until the time comes when we can express our desires, it may be prudent to hide our fetish fantasies.
Hiding our fetishes may seem drastic but it’s also something that many of us do anyway. Unfortunately, a lot of us get caught and have to deal with what is quite frankly a humiliating situation. It just seems like having a fetish is something that is embarrassing or something that you should not have. But, having a fetish also feels great when you are alone or, if you are lucky enough, having a partner that shares and participates in your fantasies. Whether it’s a foot fetish, pubic hair fetish, domination, or any other kind of fetish, it appears that fetishisms are not widely accepted.
In a perfect world, we can be free to be who we are and free to express our sexual desires. Unfortunately, we don’t live in a perfect world. Judgemental looks, criticisms, whispers, and other kind of forms of humiliating you for being a bit more sexually aware about yourself is embarrassing to experience. No one likes that. However, even though it is not ideal to have to hide your fetish, you can do it.
MyPornBlocker is a software program that blocks porn sites. This may seem counterintuitive but hear me out. Installing this software will block porn sites so that no one that goes on your computer will be able to access all the sites that you access, thus your secret will be safe. You will then be able to go to the sites you wish to visit to fulfill your fantasies once you are alone. Then, you can enable the software again when you are done.
Think about this for a moment. If you have this software program installed and your wife or husband, mom or dad, your children, roommates or coworkers happen to use your computer for whatever reason, you can be sure they will not be able to access the sites you frequent. Your secret is safe and this is what you want. Seriously, you having a fetish will be the furthest thing in anyone’s mind if you have this application installed. You don’t have to have to face your family or friends or coworkers with something that is embarrassing and has the potential to ruin your relationships and possibly your career.
So this guy has developed a program that can block the sites that everyone else may find “weird” or “strange.” Why give them that chance to find out about these sites? Why give them an unnecessary opportunity when you can do something about it before an awkward situation arises? Use this guy’s work to your advantage and rest easy.
Now, you may think that using a porn blocking software to block sites that you visit is hypocritical, especially if you have kids. Think about this way: would you let your 5 year old son or daughter drink a glass of wine? Let her smoke a cigarette? Would you let him subscribe to Playboy? The answer is no, you wouldn’t let them do that even though you yourself are perfectly allowed to do so. Blocking fetish sites are the same thing. Just because you enjoy it and it’s legal for you, doesn’t mean your children should be exposed to it. Don’t feel guilty about doing it because this isn’t something to feel guilty about.
Even though the guy that developed MyPornBlocker had a different agenda when he created it doesn’t mean you can’t take advantage of his work for your own needs. He wanted to protect his own children from porn. Good for him. You want to live your life the way you want to live it. Great for you! Use his work to for your benefit. Don’t feel guilty installing it. Instead, you should feel like you are taking proactive measures to keep your fantasies to yourself, free from any judgement.
Again, having a fetish does not make you a pervert or make you weird but it can lead to an uncomfortable situation. Don’t let it happen. You can stave off the embarrassing confrontation by being proactive and taking charge of your own privacy. Take a look at his site and see what I’m talking about. You can totally take his software and use it to hide your fetishes. And here’s the best part: you will come off looking like an upstanding person if/when your family, or friends, or coworkers find out you’ve installed the software. It’s pretty ironic but whatever keeps your secret safe is fine by us.
